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Letting Go of Limitations: Learning to Accept What We Can’t Yet Understand

Some of us have a hard time believing in things we can’t yet understand, or that we haven’t yet seen ...read moreabout Letting Go of Limitations: Learning to Accept What We Can’t Yet Understand

Twelve Ways To Re-establish Trust In Relationships

Being human means that we have to make choices, one way or another, that will impact us for the rest ...read moreabout Twelve Ways To Re-establish Trust In Relationships

Enduring Happiness

Each of us has things that really matter to us, whether we realize it or not. Whatever they are, we ...read moreabout Enduring Happiness

Releasing Past Relationships: Rediscovering The Magnificence of Who We Are, and Opening The Door To Real Love

Obsequious obscurities, servile ghosts of shadows haunting patterns in our minds, murky specters ...read moreabout Releasing Past Relationships: Rediscovering The Magnificence of Who We Are, and Opening The Door To Real Love

Beccah and the Soulmate Dilemma

Perceptual relativism, or the level of depth from which our current thoughts relate to our present ...read moreabout Beccah and the Soulmate Dilemma

Harbinger of Hearts: Dating Tips for Dogs and Divas

As a shrink who doubles as a dating coach, amidst a smorgasbord of other disenfranchised diadems; a ...read moreabout Harbinger of Hearts: Dating Tips for Dogs and Divas

Seven Colors of Companionship: A Must Read for Dating Singles

Each of us has things that really matter to us, whether we realize it or not. Whatever they are, we ...read moreabout Seven Colors of Companionship: A Must Read for Dating Singles

Excessive Attention Seeking & You (EASY): Origins and Answers

“I’m being held hostage as his sex slave,” she cried hysterically, panicked desperation pumping ...read moreabout Excessive Attention Seeking & You (EASY): Origins and Answers

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Seven Steps to Artful Dating

As the winds of change swirl mischievously beneath the cascading waterfalls of my life, gently ...read moreabout Seven Steps to Artful Dating

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Letting Go with Love

“I’m over it. I refuse to be around your anger and alcohol any more.” she said calmly, shades of ...read moreabout Letting Go with Love

Sex, Love, and Rocky Road

Some insatiable sensualists seem to say that sex is similarly satisfying whether we are in a loving ...read moreabout Sex, Love, and Rocky Road

Five Exercises That Will Strengthen Your Relationship

Like weight training, guitar playing, or creating in the kitchen; there are exercises that, when ...read moreabout Five Exercises That Will Strengthen Your Relationship

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