Drinking in the orgasmic bliss, clitacasmic ecstasy, and mesmerizing rapture of your pussy cat predilections or concupiscent cocktail is made deliriously more exhilarating when whipped up from a dance of higher love. Swaying, rocking, bumping, grinding; from the silhouettes at sunset to eurhythmic radiance in the fulgence of the dawn. Pleasure-enhancing substances cannot approach the star-powered proclivities of two lovers one in heart and soul and mind. When sharing an In Lak’ech connection, the infinite vivacity of the cosmos brings both melody and harmony into love. When material world mating is an external manifestation of the true nature of our spirit; when sensuality is the physical portrayal of the alignment of spirit, heart, body, and mind; when our rhapsodic rhythms extend the cosmic dance; our fire and zest burst into dreams beyond romance. When two people individually attain this alignment, and then share deliciously in love’s desire and fun; their sparks become the great galactic sun.
It may come as no surprise to you that higher love brings sweeter sex. Yet when you find it, share it, and spread its angel wings; you may be blown away by the love song that it sings.
Gourmet sex is an elegant fingerprint symbolizing the sultry eroticism expressed within a committed loving relationship. “The benefits of refined, sensual epicurean expressions greatly exceed those of the casual tongue and cheek varieties. For sex to nourish, heal, and embellish our beings, we must become spiritually, emotionally, and physically vulnerable; which usually takes place within the safety, familiarity, and trust created by a long term, loving relationship (like a marriage).” Best selling author, couples therapist, and clinical psychologist Sue Johnson says that “sex without love is like dancing without music.”
If the watermark of that exotically beautiful sensuality shared within the delectation of a loving, committed relationship is gourmet sex, then what descriptor could effectively capture the supernatural sex realized through even higher love? Since I believe the intimate intertwining of human hearts and bodies is intended to arouse our awareness to the pinnacle of all unions; to awaken us to the truth of our oneness with the universe; to stimulate our consciousness into the alluring rhythms of focused co-creation; sex is the mirror, not the object of reflection. So if we consciously consummate our cosmic connection, and ride its radiance across the bliss of angel fire; and then dine bon vivant on the hungers of another; we will taste the highest form of sweet desire. So should we call this supernatural sex, cosmic sex, superconscious sex, conscious infinite sex, divine sex; or would it be better not to lable it at all? Maybe we should just focus on attaining and living it? Either way, its rapturously radiant rhythms will hands down blow away the most intoxicating, bliss bursting sensual pleasures that lack the power of its ecstatic cosmic union. Something to strive for?
When we have awakened to this divine, eternal union, and when we have begun sharing its sacred physical manifestation with another in the context of a committed, loving relationship; there are some things that may enhance its sweet love song. Since meditation and sex are the same to the brain, and each augments the other; let contemplation bring more bliss to our elation. As women have different needs than men, orgasmic delight may be a piece of cake when savoring these tasty morsels of motivation. You can even make her sweet vagina high. And, no, it is not slutty, smutty, or nutty to really get into such sensual charms within the context of a marriage. I believe this is the place to bring your fantasies to life, as man and wife. I also believe it is just between the two of you. It is nobody else’s business what you do. When we live in love, maintain a responsible balance, and make sure its bliss does not become addiction; supernatural love and sex are more than fiction. For those church goers among you who find the subject of Good Sex beside Confusion, a Christian doctor wrote a book to foster fusion. It offers Biblical references to eliminate illusion.
“And Now There’s You,” one of my original tracks, is featured below in the Audio Player. Through its funky fusion it paints acoustic watercolors of lasting love. I hope you enjoy.
Have you ever experienced sweeter sex from higher love? How would you describe the difference between this and other romantic experiences? If not, does it sound like something worth working for? Strive on, untiringly.
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